Is divorce the end of life or the beginning of a new one?

A lot of people think that divorce is the worst thing that ever happens to one’s life _an incident that rips people's lives apart and causes lifelong damage, even if it's mutual and amicable.
Actually, this is absolutely correct for divorce is not just an issue between an unhappy couple who couldn't stand the sight of each other. It could mean the whole family about to fall apart. It can rattle a family emotionally and financially. In fact, apart from the emotional baggage of a divorce, financial obstacles make the whole situation even worse.
However, When at once you realize that your life becomes a nightmare, when your marriage becomes a burden on your shoulder, when each of the spouses lives in a separate sphere which like the soap bubble can never be one, when you start feeling that you can no longer bear more suffer and pain, When all love's lost and respect as well ,what will be the need for such a relation?

really the subject was and is still intersting.your english was excellent i wonder where from ?is it your level in english!? i hope.

well you already answered the question; i mean you linked divorce with life either far or near,start or end, white or black,[b] DIVORCE IS LIFE.remember you used (to be) to link between these two worlds/words...
thanks.

[quote="karwia"]really the subject was and is still intersting.your english was excellent i wonder where from ?is it your level in english!?



thanks a lot for your praise.i really appreciate that, by the way my english is good coz i'm an MA student of english.
i'm from Tunisia and specifically from the lovely"KAIROUAN".

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ربي يبارك فيك سي عادل

back to true believer's subject!!!!!!

First of all, I apologize for not being able to speak French. However, if I may kindly answer to the question above, there are a lot of reasons for divorce, which means that the problem may not only stem of the relationship of the couple, but also the entire family, external factors, and cultural differences. Although divorce is frowned upon by people, it could be the only way for couples to rid themselves of a loveless marriage that is slowly eating their entire family from the inside. If you feel that divorce is ultimately a sin and therefore must not be done ever, imagine a marriage in which both parents always fight and argue, leaving emotional scars on their children and everybody around them. Therefore, people can learn how to get a divorce or how to save marriage, but they must think the best for everybody involved.

True Believer.. I couldn't agree more. I know that divorce is hated and everybody has a really bad idea about it, but, it is a solution we shouldn't disregard when peace and releaf are most needed. I know a family which had broaken down anyway after the ongoing fights their parents had over silly issues. As a result, the parents had suffered as well as their children. These parents had thought about divorce before, but they didn't do it because of the way society will look at them after such an action. Till this day, this family is still suffering. And the main casualties in here are their children. They didn't live their childhood well, neither their teenagehood. And franckly, I don't think the rest of their life is going to be any different.